WEDDING BLOG
Insights and Inspiration from a UK Wedding Planner: Expert Tips for your wedding planning
How to Choose a Wedding Colour Palette That Actually Works
Of all the questions couples bring to me in the early stages of planning, colour palette is one of the trickiest to pin down, and also one of the most important. Get it right and it quietly threads through everything, from the flowers to the stationery to the way the room feels in photographs years later. Get it wrong, or simply leave it too vague, and you end up with a day that looks slightly disjointed even if every individual element is beautiful on its own.
Private Estate & At-Home Weddings: Everything You Need to Know
There is a particular kind of magic to getting married somewhere that means something to you personally, rather than a venue you found online.. Over the years I've planned weddings in family gardens, on private estates that have been passed down for generations, and in fields that couples grew up running around in as children. Every single one of them has had an atmosphere that's genuinely hard to replicate anywhere else.
The Art of the Guest Experience: Making Your Wedding Unforgettable for Everyone in the Room
It's easy, understandably, for wedding planning to become entirely couple-focused, the dress, the flowers, the photography, the vows. But some of the very best weddings I've planned share one thing in common: the couple thought just as carefully about their guests' experience as they did about their own.
Marquee vs. Venue: How to Decide What's Right for Your Day
One of the first big decisions in any wedding is also one of the most consequential: do you host your day at an existing venue, or do you build your own from scratch with a marquee? I get asked this question a lot, and my honest answer is always the same it depends entirely on what matters most to you. Here's how I help couples think it through.
How to Plan a Wedding Without It Taking Over Your Life
Somewhere between the engagement photos and the big day, wedding planning has a habit of quietly swallowing everything else. I see it happen to even the most level-headed couples: evenings disappear into spreadsheets, weekends get eaten by venue visits, and Pinterest becomes something closer to a second job than a source of joy. If that sounds familiar, I want to gently say it doesn't have to be this way, and it shouldn't be.
Your First Wedding Planning Meeting: What to Prepare and What to Expect
Every couple I meet for the first time arrives with a slightly different version of the same feeling: excitement, mixed with a bit of "where on earth do we even start?" That's completely normal, and honestly, it's exactly what this first meeting is for. You don't need to arrive with a finished vision, a colour palette, or even a firm budget. You just need to arrive as yourselves.
Why Autumn Is Quietly Becoming the Best Season to Marry in the UK
For years, the wedding calendar had a fairly predictable shape. Couples fought for June, July and August dates, venues were booked out eighteen months in advance for high summer, and autumn was treated as the fallback option for anyone who'd left it too late. That's no longer the case, and honestly, I couldn't be happier about it.
How to Find the Right Wedding Planner in London
London is one of the world's great cities for a wedding but it is also one of the most competitive, most expensive, and most logistically demanding places to plan one. With hundreds of wedding planners operating across the capital, finding the right one can feel overwhelming.
Planning a £200k+ Wedding: What to Expect and How to Do It Right
A wedding budget of £200,000 or more is a significant investment and it deserves to be treated as one. Not in a transactional sense, but in the sense that every pound should be working hard toward an experience that is genuinely extraordinary.
At One Oake, we plan a number of weddings each year at this level of budget. What follows is an honest and detailed guide to what a £200k+ wedding involves, where the money goes, and how to ensure the result is truly unforgettable.
Luxury Wedding Planning in Essex: Your Complete Guide
Essex is, in the most wonderful way, full of surprises. Mention Essex weddings and many people still picture the clichés but the reality is a county of extraordinary variety: rolling countryside, ancient barns, sweeping coastal views, grand country estates and some of the most beautiful private land in the south east of England.
As a luxury wedding planning company based in Essex, One Oake has an intimate knowledge of what this county has to offer and we believe it is one of the finest wedding destinations in the UK.
The Rise of the Weekend Wedding: Why Multi-Day Celebrations Are the New Luxury
Something has shifted in how the most discerning couples think about their wedding. For years, the traditional formula held: a ceremony, a reception, a party, a farewell. One day. One chance.
But increasingly, couples who want their wedding to feel truly meaningful particularly those planning at a higher budget are moving toward a different model entirely. The weekend wedding. The multi-day celebration. A gathering that doesn't just happen; it unfolds.
The Ultimate Guide to Marquee Weddings in the UK
There is something undeniably magical about a marquee wedding. The soft glow of festoon lights against pale canvas. Guests spilling out onto a lawn as the sun dips below the treeline. A space created entirely from scratch designed for you, shaped around you, existing for one extraordinary day.
What Does a Wedding Planner Actually Do?
Hiring a wedding planner is one of the most meaningful decisions a couple can make yet it's also one of the most misunderstood. Many people assume a planner is a luxury reserved for celebrity weddings or eye-watering budgets. The truth? A great wedding planner saves you money, time, and an enormous amount of stress, whatever the scale of your celebration.
What Is the Difference Between a Wedding Planner and a Venue Coordinator?
This is one of the most common questions I'm asked, and it's such an important one — because the answer surprises a lot of couples.
"But our venue has a coordinator, so do we really need a planner?" I hear this regularly, and I completely understand the logic. If the venue is providing someone to help, surely that's the same thing? The short answer is: not quite. Let me explain the difference, because it could genuinely change how your wedding day feels.
UK Wedding Trends for 2026: What's In, What's Out and What's Here to Stay
Every year without fail, I get asked the same question: "What's trending in weddings right now?" And honestly, as a planner who immerses herself in this industry every single day, I love talking about it. There is so much creativity and beauty in what couples are choosing to do with their celebrations right now.
How Much Does a Wedding Planner Cost in the UK? Everything You Need to Know
Let's talk about the question nobody quite wants to ask out loud but everyone is thinking: how much does a wedding planner actually cost?
UK Wedding Planning Timeline: When to Book Everything and In What Order
With the right timeline in place, wedding planning doesn't have to feel frantic. Here's my expert guide to exactly what to book, and when, so you can approach your planning with calm and confidence.
How Much Does a Wedding Cost in the UK? A Realistic Budget Breakdown
One of the very first questions I get asked by newly engaged couples often in our very first conversation is: "How much is this all going to cost?" And honestly, it's the right question to ask early. Understanding the realistic cost of a UK wedding before you start booking anything is one of the most important things you can do to protect yourself from stress, overspending and disappointment down the line.
Wedding Planning FAQ's
As a wedding planner I get asked lots of different questions about the wedding planning process, the role of a wedding planner and just general questions about weddings! Therefore I decided to ask on Instagram for any questions that people would like answers to about any of the above topics! Here are the top 10 questions I was asked.
Real Wedding: Intimate London Pub Wedding, The Phene, Chelsea - September 2025
Maddie and Amir brought 8 of their closest friends and family over from Canada to London to have a true London Wedding and what a day they had! I adored working with them from start to finish, they are two of the loveliest humans you could meet and we have such a wonderful time planning their intimate wedding day. They had a true London wedding, open top London bus and rain included!